View Full Version : Gay Israeli artists seek Arabs to fall in love with


B-Patriot
June 6th, 2005, 05:12 AM
Lol, a very interesting and weird article...Enjoy!

By Claudia Parsons
Fri May 20,12:01 PM ET



NEW YORK (Reuters) - Two gay Israeli men have installed a huge double bed in a New York art gallery and are inviting Arab men to become their "lover" as part of an exhibition called "Sleeping with the Enemy."

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But the artists who like to be known simply as Gil and Moti talk about the project in romantic terms, saying it's about "falling in love" rather than sex. Gil said visitors should not come to the show expecting to see pornography.

"The bed is there for us to live in. Artistically there are three pillows to symbolise unity of three people which goes along with the whole concept of make love not war," he said.

"We try to actually open up a dialogue and debate which is about more important issues than just sexual matters and if there's sex, OK, but it's not something we're interested in discussing," Gil said.

The sales pitch for the show in which the two live and work in the gallery surrounded by their art reads: "Israeli artists Gil and Moti are gay, married and in love. For 5 weeks, they court an Arab lover."

Since late 2002 they have made contact online with as many as 300 Arab men from across the Middle East. They typically send a message through a dating site asking if they can paint a picture from the man's photo and explaining who they are.

They then scan and e-mail the painting as a means of "seduction" and hopefully start a dialogue and meet, Gil said.

The gallery called Jack the Pelican, in Brooklyn, is displaying over 100 of the watercolours, priced at $700-$900, along with some transcripts of e-mail exchanges, photos and oil paintings and the bed.

"We felt frustrated with the political situation in the Middle East," said Gil. "As Israelis, we grew up with Arabs but we were encouraged by the education system to hate and abuse them so we thought we must do something about it."

"So we decided to fall in love with one of them."

STILL SEARCHING FOR THE RIGHT MAN

Moti is coy when asked whether the bed might actually be put to use if they meet an Arab man they like.

"We want people to think about sex when they enter the show because we have a bed in the front and it's clear that we are living here, but we're not interested in showing that," he said, appearing a little bashful for a man standing in front of paintings of naked men in graphic sexual positions.

Gil said they had not invited anybody to join them yet but one local Arab man had invited them to his home.

The exhibit includes video and pictures of a Lebanese man called Oliver who lived with them for nearly a year in the Netherlands. One photograph shows the three men standing naked and covered in mud in a wood, holding hands.

"We actually fell in love, with the three of us," Gil said. "He saw us as one person because we're together 24 hours a day, I think it's no longer clear how individual we are."

"He said he loved not just us but the concept. But at some point it got complicated," Gil said, explaining that Oliver found the pressure of living with performance artists who consider their life a constant show too difficult, so he left.

Aged 37 and 33, Gil and Moti, who met 11 years ago at art school in Israel, dress alike, on this occasion in yellow tee-shirts embroidered by Gil's mother with flowers and their names in Arabic, and both wear their hair gelled into spikes.

<http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20050520/od_uk_nm/oukoe_arts_mideast_gay>

Raza
June 6th, 2005, 05:16 AM
crazy, getting done by an enemy in the as_ how is that a turn on???

*UofT*
June 6th, 2005, 06:51 AM
People of Lut....

Azazel
June 6th, 2005, 08:51 AM
That's kinda silly, but I doubt that any gay arab men from the middle east will come. They have to hide their identity, so they won't be punished...

Shohad
June 6th, 2005, 08:57 AM
That's kinda silly, but I doubt that any gay arab men from the middle east will come. They have to hide their identity, so they won't be punished...
isn't it enough of a punishment?!

B-Patriot
June 6th, 2005, 09:04 AM
What? Being gay? or being an Arab, lol? :tongue2:

:jk:

Azazel
June 6th, 2005, 09:05 AM
's better than being killed or put into prison, yes. It's all relative. I say they should escape from all the countries in which they are opressed.

B-Patriot
June 6th, 2005, 09:10 AM
's better than being killed or put into prison, yes. It's all relative. I say they should escape from all the countries in which they are opressed.

What are u talking about!? :?

*UofT*
June 6th, 2005, 09:17 AM
isn't it enough of a punishment?!
HAHAHAHAHA, U got it .

Shohad
June 6th, 2005, 10:11 AM
[QUOTE=Bahraini Patriot]What? Being gay? or being an Arab, lol? :tongue2: :hahaha:

mr. N
June 6th, 2005, 08:11 PM
"Sleeping with the enemy" lol that was funny.
Interesting article by the way.

Monkey
June 6th, 2005, 09:49 PM
hehe funny article

Azazel
June 7th, 2005, 10:37 PM
What are u talking about!?

homosexuals are opressed in arab countries. Don't act like you don't know what you're talking about.

TalB
June 12th, 2005, 02:46 AM
I have heard of this before, and I think it's a good way to express the relations between Israelis and Arabs.

waccamatt
June 12th, 2005, 02:57 AM
What are u talking about!?

homosexuals are opressed in arab countries. Don't act like you don't know what you're talking about.

Heck, we're oppressed in the United States and Israel too, just not nearly to the extent as in Arab countries. Maybe we could start a revolution and form our own country. :jk: :cheers:

SpotlessMind
June 12th, 2005, 03:29 AM
Heck, we're oppressed in the United States and Israel too, just not nearly to the extent as in Arab countries. Maybe we could start a revolution and form our own country. :jk: :cheers:

Take it up to the UN! Who knows....

What would it be called... The Rainbow Republic? :D

And the national anthem would be a duet between Cher and Madonna.

mr. N
June 12th, 2005, 03:32 AM
^ lol
well i guess its already obvious what the flag would look llike.......

SpotlessMind
June 12th, 2005, 03:47 AM
^^ Ofcourse! At least no arguments about that... :D

Shohad
June 12th, 2005, 08:30 AM
^^^ there is actually a plan for something like that on an island near the coast of Australia. It was supposed to be a protest against their government, but they became serious.

Principes
June 12th, 2005, 03:18 PM
What are u talking about!?

homosexuals are opressed in arab countries. Don't act like you don't know what you're talking about.

And rightly so. It is disgusting and vile, and promotes the spread of disease.

Gilgamesh
June 12th, 2005, 10:24 PM
And rightly so. It is disgusting and vile, and promotes the spread of disease.


:nuts:

TalB
June 13th, 2005, 12:28 AM
Has this already been on display yet, b/c I live near NYC?