Intimacy...

Seeing news everyday about famous people caught out for letchering, seducing, raping other people they had power over makes me ponder how much of this goes on for every one else ?
Firstly I abhor any adult taking advantage of a minor...
I can only reference either my own life experiences or those of friends who opened up about their own lives.
I think it is normal for a person to feel attracted to another. Sure a great looking person may have hordes after them but most real people still find another person that they find special that another may take little notice.
At younger ages...people may be curious and innocent actions pass without angst. Then older or senior work associates may try to crack onto someone after drinking wine, whatever...the work Christmas party etc...where following weeks find discomfort or embarrassment.
It may be shrugged off or all hell breaks loose and someone is fired.
But...in reality humans are attracted to other humans, whatever sex...and it takes one to make the first move and I guess if a more intimate situation arises they must decide if it was mutually satisfactory or a one off thing.
Mature adults can move on without loathing or life long stress just because their life experience has made a few wrong turns over the years.
What worries me today is media and social media continually tell us about distressed people with lives ruined forever because they hold a 'dirty' secret till it comes out maybe decades later...
Is this just society manipulating people who are weaker to feel they were wrong or wronged and they must seek justice ?
A European mate of mine talks openly about his life...he is gay, and well adjusted to realities of lust and his needs. Experiences he had not expected yet later looked on as just part of life...no malice.
He knew from a young age he was gay...guess anyone will find themselves in their own time. He had experienced sex too young as far as my compass goes but he said it was nothing to stress about. I will leave that there as it is not correct these days to state examples of real life on an internet forum...
The News items make all this about lust and sex yet much of what happens is often the search for intimacy with another person who is mutually attracted.
As years pass one of the people concerned may regret experiences they had and build it up till all this news hype makes them break.
I reckon I could write a book but most would think it a fantasy...you live life, you go on...and if you find the right person to share it with beyond a sordid one night stand...your a lucky person. I wish I could say all I wanted to say on here but don't want to break boundaries or rules...so if this post seems a bit pointless the gaps I had to leave may lead you no where ? If anyone can understand any part and add OK...either way I understand not the easiest subject.